Friendship & Romance: DID WE HAVE TO RUIN IT WITH A KISS?

What if we didn't ruiun it with a kiss?

Friendship & Romance: DID WE HAVE TO RUIN IT WITH A KISS?

Did we have to ruin the friendship with a kiss? – Friendship & Romance. What does friendship mean to you?

Friendship is a deep and meaningful connection between individuals based on mutual understanding, trust, respect, and affection. It’s a relationship that goes beyond mere acquaintanceship, where people share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences with each other. Friendship often involves offering support, empathy, and companionship during both joyful and challenging times.

Friendship, for humans, is a deep and meaningful connection between individuals. It’s a bond that goes beyond mere acquaintanceship and is characterized by mutual trust, understanding, and care. Friends provide emotional support, companionship, and a sense of belonging. They share experiences, offer a listening ear, and often stand by each other through both joyful moments and challenging times. True friendship is built on empathy, respect, and the willingness to invest time and effort into nurturing the relationship. It’s a source of happiness, comfort, and a feeling of being valued for who you are.

What if we didn't ruin it with a kiss?

Key elements of friendship include:

  1. Trust: Friends rely on each other and trust that their intentions are genuine and honest.

  2. Mutual Understanding: Friends understand each other’s values, interests, and quirks, which leads to a deeper connection.

  3. Shared Experiences: Engaging in activities and sharing experiences together creates lasting memories and strengthens the bond.

  4. Empathy: Friends listen, understand, and provide emotional support to each other, showing that they care about each other’s well-being.

  5. Respect: Respectful friendships involve treating each other with kindness, considering each other’s feelings, and valuing each other’s opinions.

  6. Non-Judgment: Friends accept each other for who they are, without harsh judgment or criticism.

  7. Loyalty: Friends stand by each other through thick and thin, demonstrating their commitment and dedication to the relationship.

  8. Communication: Open and honest communication is key in maintaining a strong friendship, allowing friends to address issues and celebrate achievements.

Friendships enrich lives by providing a sense of belonging, companionship, and emotional support. They contribute to overall well-being and can have positive effects on mental health.

What if we left friendship the way it is supposed to be and did not ruin it with a kiss? Have you ever had such type of situation? Well, this article is for a friendship that has probably been ruined by a kiss! And most times I get it when people say ‘Date your friend’.

But what if the friendship gets ruined from the moment sexual activity is involved? I have had people say the day they agreed to date their ‘besties’ was the time they revealed a lot of things about the person. Yes, I agree that some actually get lucky with dating/ being in a romantic relationship with their friends but it’s like 4/10 with stories I have heard, and trust me I hear it doesn’t turn out well. 

You might have gotten lucky too, but don’t you think things might have gone south? Okay, what if you weren’t lucky? Does that mean you ruined a friendship you built for years?

How do you deal with knowing you could’ve stayed as friends instead of getting yourself into the romance? Are friendships meant to stay as friends or get extended if the feelings develop? 

Over time, I’ve learned to stay friends if I truly value the friendship bond we share, especially as the opposite sex.



Anyways, Do you think dating your friend is a good idea? Or should we stay as friends? Let me know your thought in the comment section and don’t forget to share with your friends too. Cheers.


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